There is a way forward, even if you can’t see it yet

You’re not broken. You’re stuck, and that can change

Confidential counselling for men seeking freedom from porn and unwanted sexual behaviour, grounded in respect, understanding, and lasting change.

The Struggle

Having tried many times to get free, you might feel stuck in a cycle of porn use and masturbation.

Many men I am helping explain that they can't stop watching porn, they say that it feels like they are addicted to porn, and they desire to quit porn for good, to stop the compulsive porn use.

There is a pathway to healing and restoration, leading to freedom.

Feeling like things got out of control?

The struggle with sexual urges, lust, and porn use can leave you feeling overwhelmed.

Compulsive sexual behaviour, secret sexual behaviour, and out-of-control sexuality can seem impossible to manage and lead to a sense of living a double life.

These behaviours are often driven by an underlying issue. Together, we slow things down, get curious (not critical), and work towards lasting change and improved sexual health.

The Shame Barrier

If you’ve had an affair, been caught in online sexual behaviour, or crossed boundaries you never thought you would, the shame can feel crushing.

Don't allow shame to become a barrier to your recovery journey. There is help after an affair. Trust can be rebuilt. Together, we will answer questions like Why did I cheat?

Whether your relationship is continuing, uncertain, or already broken, recovery is still possible. This is a space to take responsibility without being overwhelmed by it and to engage in the deeper work that prevents the pattern from repeating.

You won't find judgment or condemnation here, what you will find is acceptance, compassion, and grace.

Feeling Bound-Up

Some struggles happen entirely in secret, online hookups, sexting, cam sites, escorts, or paying for sex.

Your sexual brokenness and repetitive behaviours might cause you to seek help because of;

paying for sex
engaging in online affairs
being addicted to hook-up apps
frequently engaging in anonymous sex

These behaviours thrive in secrecy and isolation. Change begins when you no longer have to face them alone.

Relationship harmed

For many men, the deepest pain isn’t the behaviour itself, it’s the impact on intimacy, trust, and connection.

Has your porn use or your problematic sexual behaviour negatively affected your;

Marital sex life
Caused your wife to no longer trust you
Affected your marital intimacy
Ruined your marriage

Healing sexual behaviour and rebuilding relational trust can happen together. We work toward honesty, emotional presence, and healthier intimacy, at a pace that respects everyone involved.

A different kind of help

You don’t have to face this alone. Professional counselling to help navigate the way to healing, freedom, and restored relationships.

This isn’t about quick fixes or behaviour control.
It’s about:

Understanding the emotional and relational roots of sexual behaviour
Reducing shame instead of increasing it
Building self-control through compassion, not fear
Learning how to respond differently to stress, loneliness, and desire
Living with integrity instead of secrecy
Support that respects your faith, values, and spiritual life

Feeling unsure

Confidential support is available, even if you're unsure

Tired, discouraged, or unsure whether change is even possible anymore, that’s okay. Hope often starts small with a quiet decision to reach out.

You don’t need to hit rock bottom.
You don’t need the perfect words.
You just need a place to start.

What does the next step look like?

Click the link below, complete your info and I will get in touch with you. Please rest assured that all info is treated as highly confidential.

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